Sincerity

I watch television once a mother who said, 'At the beginning of an argument I try to remain calm but pointed conflict. I do not hold the emotion, I felt my husband did not heed all of 'my sacrifice' for the family, husband and children and how the sincerity in serving them. Anger over common sense to me to flow the words spicy and painful. While the husband was also replied to the words that are not less spiciness. Our conflict enlarged and difficult to overcome. "

That's a bad picture of how an argument into a commodity spectacle glass screen, meaning erroneously perceived as sincerely as well. And if sincerity be understood as a source of happiness of a wife to feel beautiful because sincerity is the most potent instrument in regulating the family. and that is proof of his intelligence wives as homemakers. Wives who are emotionally intelligent will always win in every conflict since only concentrate on the source of conflict is not a bad thought about her husband. Wife winners realize that their success in maintaining calmness itself is far more valuable than surrender to lust anger. Calmness is power. As the words of the Prophet Muhammad,

'People who are powerful are not the ones who always win fights but they are able to control his temper. " (Narrated by Muslim).

Wife winner will remember how important it is to choose words that are polite in responding to anger her husband. He would avoid the painful words, ridicule or mock their husbands. Wife winners avoid things that aggravate the problem or disturb the atmosphere. If the wife feels the conflict will be more pointed, it should try to be peace by ending the existing conditions and then show his attention to the husband for not plunging their emotions to things that are not desired.

Spend time alone with my husband is very important. As with prayers in congregation. This can add affection between husband and wife. besides that it should always ask for the protection of Allaah and believing that God will never disappoint his servants who ask for protection.