Always Giving Thanks

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Desire

I want a sense of the word said all full of meaning.
I just could not said.,
fairly implied in the shadows and dreams
that interfere with the shortness of breath at the time.

I want to fly free freelance
With pretty butterfly wings & Beautiful.
So I can perch on every flower that I want to go
With the remaining honey peek
after the suction of the beetle.

If I can keep the flowers
Without the wasp sting
What more can I bnyak honey guard
From my interest perch.

Sincerity

I watch television once a mother who said, 'At the beginning of an argument I try to remain calm but pointed conflict. I do not hold the emotion, I felt my husband did not heed all of 'my sacrifice' for the family, husband and children and how the sincerity in serving them. Anger over common sense to me to flow the words spicy and painful. While the husband was also replied to the words that are not less spiciness. Our conflict enlarged and difficult to overcome. "

That's a bad picture of how an argument into a commodity spectacle glass screen, meaning erroneously perceived as sincerely as well. And if sincerity be understood as a source of happiness of a wife to feel beautiful because sincerity is the most potent instrument in regulating the family. and that is proof of his intelligence wives as homemakers. Wives who are emotionally intelligent will always win in every conflict since only concentrate on the source of conflict is not a bad thought about her husband. Wife winners realize that their success in maintaining calmness itself is far more valuable than surrender to lust anger. Calmness is power. As the words of the Prophet Muhammad,

'People who are powerful are not the ones who always win fights but they are able to control his temper. " (Narrated by Muslim).

Wife winner will remember how important it is to choose words that are polite in responding to anger her husband. He would avoid the painful words, ridicule or mock their husbands. Wife winners avoid things that aggravate the problem or disturb the atmosphere. If the wife feels the conflict will be more pointed, it should try to be peace by ending the existing conditions and then show his attention to the husband for not plunging their emotions to things that are not desired.

Spend time alone with my husband is very important. As with prayers in congregation. This can add affection between husband and wife. besides that it should always ask for the protection of Allaah and believing that God will never disappoint his servants who ask for protection.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Best Friends

Sunday the day the most I wait because today is the time for me to rest after a full week of hard work, this week when I woke up at 12 noon, I felt shattered body as they may feel tired I immediately asked my wife to shower san I make my favorite cup of black coffee as he took a single cigarette and watch television shows in the company of my wife. When Dore arrived about 4 o'clock I'm going to go to my aunt's house to visit, but when it comes with a bunch of my friends want to leave her boyfriend, what the hell ooo,,, turns out he only played just say hello while we chatted bring snacks together. Due to chatting eee asyikan not feel the time is shown at 7 pm, so finally I did not place my aunt, maybe kutunda tomorrow afternoon, I feel happy today because there are friends who care about my family who still remembers to me too, thank you O God for all the blessings that you gave.

Billed on Credit

Yesterday the money that is left is Rp. 10.000 rupiah, but in the afternoon I can loan money from a friend of Rp. 200.000 I am grateful thank thee O God give me additional rizeki, and will to used to pay electricity, buy snacks for my wife waiting at home who came home from work, and other purposes. On this day April 16, 2011 I come to work overtime when finished lunch with my boss then I'm with my friends a break behind the office while drinking a cup of coffee drunk together that's how we call it ... all of a sudden you hear a mobile phone one of my friends, having raised it turns out one of my friends are also asking for my existence, I gasped in surprise what's going on in my heart? Apparently he wanted to collect debts amounting to Rp. 1 Million dollars, Oh no, what is in my heart, I felt confused by the current circumstances O God please help me servant, give your servant a way to resolve this matter. Finally, the afternoon I requested help from one of my friends also to pawn letter of motor vehicles amounted to Rp. 1 Million dollars, and is currently in prosses, yes thank God you finally told your servant member road.

Ten Thousand Rupiah

Today is the 17 April, 2011 I only had money left over 10,000 in my pants but I still say thank you O God are you still there money provide for survival. Actually I'm very confused with my situation right now that I think I'd better make love to my wife just bought a bunch of spinach and a piece of tempe ( simple food ) for lunch my wife, I would rather that succumb .. later at work I will borrow to friend. but I'm amazed at my wife who never complained with my situation now, but actually I'm really sorry to my wife, she was pregnant 8 months and I can not give the best for my wife, ... sometimes I cry, but what can i do, i already tried very hard to look for some money, sometimes I even got home that night until 2 o'clock only to find additional income. That's all I did was wrong once when Spree-loving bachelors only spend money for things that do not clear. Therefore I now think just want to look for some money as much as possible for my wife and my son, even though my life difficult I always would like to gratitude to God because it still gave me a job. thank you O God